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#20 – Watch an art house movie at Cinema Nova

#20 Stroll along leafy Lygon Street to discover Little Italy and watch an art house movie at Cinema Nova – Monday, June 3, 2013

Go and watch “The Hunt”. It is one of the best movies of the year.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Umv4CyxTdg

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Michael, Emma and I strolled a negligible amount of Lygon Street to get to Cinema Nova on a Monday in June.  After a quick pizza at Trotters, we stocked up on supermarket treats from the Woolworths below the theatre – an excellent local tip from Emma. We filed into a very cold cinema to watch a very chilling film.

The Hunt is an art house film and the antithesis of a Hollywood blockbuster.  The story brews slowly, the cinematography is beautiful and the acting is subtle.  The wintery scenes of kids in onesy playsuits brought back memories of Munich but this tale could play out anywhere. The lead figure, Lucas, is a kindergarten teacher in a small Danish town.  The story was shown from his perspective, but if another point of view had been used, the film would have been quite a different story.  The question of trust in such uneven relationships can never be as clear as the film’s vision but the last few scenes were incredibly poignant.

I found the dilemma of child abuse in an educational setting extremely relevant.  There are two men in our class of 24 primary teacher trainees and from day one, the message for them has been “be cautious”.  Do not be alone with a chid in a room.  Do not touch a child if you do not need to.  Never initiate a hug.  Tell someone quickly if something happens.

In the beginnings of the film Lucas is established as a well-respected member of the community.  He is an engaged teacher, a helpful friend to his hunting buddies, a catch for his new girlfriend, and a reliable friend and adult in Klara’s world.  This good reputation comes crashing down when Klara tells Grete, the kindergarten leader, that Lucas exposed himself.  We, the audience, knows this is a false accusation. However, for Lucas’ friends, colleagues and the townsfolk, the accusation is believed, repeated by several children and too hard to bear.  Child abuse is too big a violation of trust and taboos that Lucas never received the benefit of the doubt.  Only his son and one friend stand by him.

At the end of the film there are two powerful scenes of rebuilding shattered trust.  Lucas and Theo share food and silence.  The friendship, dating back to mopeds, is given a latent chance to heal.  A final scene with Klara and Lucas together was heart wrenching and yet uplifting.  Lucas’ optimism outweighs my own.

Please go and see The Hunt.  The subject matter is heavy but the film is amazing.

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The Doomed Present – the Alternative List

It can be difficult to find presents for Michael, but this year, I felt like I was onto a good thing. Our friend Lucy had recently visited San Fransisco and explained about a list (*alarm bells* Michael likes lists), which her local friends made with the top 100 things to do in San Fransisco. I thought that could transfer quite nicely to Melbourne.  So I sent this email to a bunch of friends on April 30, hoping to elicit excellent ideas for my list:

Hi,

Michael’s birthday is coming upon May 25th and I’m hoping you’ll help me with a gift…
I want to make him a book of “Top Things To Do In And Around Melbourne” and I would love your contributions :)

Please send me your top 5 things to do (10 if you’re ambitious), in either English or German. And as I have learnt from teaching 5 year olds, the best writing is always accompanied by a picture. Thus please attach a photo, hand drawn picture or use your mad MS Paint skillz. The more personalised the recommendation and picture, the better.

I will collate the pages and make a book to present him at his party on the 25th. You’re invited.. Michael will be in touch soon.

Please send me your contributions by Saturday May 11.

Thanks in advance!

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We’re new here

It’s been a few months since this “We’re moving to Melbourne” ball got rolling, and it feels like it might slowly be coming to a stop.  Michael and I have a fixed abode again and we have landed in Port Melbourne.  Soon our container of stuff will arrive from Germany and we will do some mad before-and-after shots and our new apartment will seem oddly familiar with old furniture.

It has been a busy couple of months since we packed up from Munich.  Halle and Leipzig with Trudy seems an age ago and our holiday to Egypt a warm memory.  It was sad to say goodbyes in London and Bremen but then we flew into summer, a wedding and New Years and then a New Life in Melbourne, the excitement and adrenalin pushing us forward.

The most surprising part of relocating has been realising our network in Melbourne is already pretty extensive through friends, friends-of-friends and potential friends lurking around many corners.   We have been settling in at a crazy pace with The Tennis, walks, moonlight movies, tours, mykis, South Melbourne markets, swims, byo dumplings, barbies, runs, flat whites and mangoes.

I start university on February 25 so I have a couple more weeks of freedom. I’m looking for some part time work but no luck so far.  I’m excited about going back to university and being in schools and giving teaching my 100%.  I still have my uncertainties, but it definitely feels like the right place and time to be studying again in a new and exciting direction.  This is the theoretical happy pre-class me!

Life Admin has become a full time job and I have lots of new stuff like a bank account, a library card and an Aussie phone number.  Hopefully soon I should get a tax file number, a medicare card and a Working With Children Card.  Driver’s Licence, student ID and internet still on the To-Do list.  Tomorrow we should get a telephone line (the actual phone is in the container) and then internet in a couple of days.  Ironies of ironies, Michael is still battling with Telstra to get a work mobile phone!

Integration this far has been fairly smooth: thongs go everywhere, sunscreen is the new moisturizer and I am happy to report an increase in the usage of Yummo, Defo and Arvo.  Soon “Haitch” will slip out when I spell my name.